In the following days I’m going to give you some of their stories of dating after 40 and relationships.
And if he is serious about meeting a woman for a real relationship, he will step up.
So…the bottom line on texting and dating is this: use texting sparingly, wisely and, most of all, don’t read too much into it.
Expecting him to move on to something more serious isn’t realistic. There are so many ways to know if a man is a serious guy who is interested in getting to know you. It’s a type of false connection that sets up incredibly unrealistic assumptions and expectations.
I’ve seen countless women create complete fantasies and get drawn in — often before they even meet a man. With no tonality in messages, texting back and forth creates enormous opportunities to misread and misunderstand intent.
A player or user guy will text you again in a few weeks wanting to see you that night. It’s all about how he FEELS when he’s with you, and he knows it.