It takes a lot of interactions in simple (sometimes boring) things like group activities, working side by side, or being around each other’s families, to see what someone’s everyday personality is really like.-or- Who now, seeing the most delicious dense, dark chocolate cake I know how to make, will be happy eating vegetables when this cake is always right there, almost available? How will a relationship feel if it’s way too physical?
How lasting will it be when the physical isn’t exciting anymore?
Testosterone is the hormone that has the biggest influence on sexual desire for both men and women.
Testosterone starts showing up in the body during teen years, and guess what – men have much, much more testosterone in their bodies than women, though women have it too and it does influence their thoughts and desires also.
My advice: don’t do in the dark of Friday night things you wouldn’t be comfortable doing at noon on a Tuesday.