Studying at Regent College, he says he has been confronted by many new ideas and is reevaluating the outlook presented in his best-seller of twenty years ago..
That process of reevaluation has broadened since Harris met Jessica Van Der Wyngaard at Regent.
The book sold more than a million copies and some Christians followed it almost as if it were gospel.
A couple of years ago, Harris left the American megachurch he had been pastoring and moved his family to Vancouver.
So the idea behind the book is that it might be a good idea to take a break from the dating game for certain people, and to enjoy friendships and build relationships that way, but not pursue a bunch of short-term romantic relationships.