Check the temporary Internet files and history log on your computer. When you're trying to catch a cheating man via the Internet, you have to look for more subtle clues as well.One trick a guy who cheats uses is to set up an email account that this partner doesn't know about to have his affair.
Q: I recently discovered that my husband is on several online dating sites.
When I confronted him, he said he was sorry and claimed he wasn’t necessarily trying to “hook up” with anyone.
But his profiles on the sites state that he was trying to connect with people for those reasons.
I have not found any real proof that he hooked up with anyone else, but he is such a liar I don’t know what to believe!
It sounds like the two of you are living parallel lives except perhaps for the kids. He wouldn’t be looking at dating sites and certainly not participating in them if he was, in fact, happy.