I think the key take-aways should be that online dating can be different than traditional dating and that “wanting to understand” is sometimes the best approach to take.
” My point is that often you need to approach the situation with no assumptions and no attacks. It’s always sad when someone contacts me with one of these great emails they jumped all over the person they were dating and drove them away.
The Keys for Success: Understanding Where You Stand The approach is simple.
Here’s the approach: Be honest, caring, understanding and patient (with some limitations).
Hi So-and-so: I really enjoy spending time together and I’m wondering where you see our relationship going?
You can recover from this, but it’s is hard to do…so try to avoid putting yourself in a position where you need to recover!