I wanted to hear more of these stories from other women, all sharing those key moments from their lives.
What simple piece of wisdom or guidance resonated with them, and why was it so meaningful?
Not only can love be found everywhere -- in an idea, an experience, a lover, a friend, etc.
-- but it's like compound interest: the more you have the more you get. As Emily Dickinson wrote, "The soul should always stand ajar, ready to welcome the ecstatic experience." The most important piece of love advice I ever got was this: "Treat yourself like a prize." The strange part is: I can no longer remember who first passed on the wisdom.
The trick to marriage is having faith in the reconnection, waiting for the inevitable closeness again." This was in 1994. And then at the end, we moved too far apart to ever reenter each other's orbits, out of each other's fields of gravity, and that's when I knew it was over. The best advice about love I got from my father, Michael Rockland.