You laugh at the same dorky jokes and listen to the same music. Someone who considers you his girlfriend will often have joined plans for the two of you. You’ve been seeing each other intensely for months and you’ve never met a friend or family member? Not to throw a paranoia blanket on your hot and heavy parade but that’s pretty suspicious. If the person you think is your BF doesn’t know or care if you’re still seeing other people then he’s probably not your man. It’s always exciting to meet a new guy and feel a connection. So now you’re dating, kissing and maybe even doing… Every time you hang out you’re even more sure that he’s perfect for you. If you’re half of a couple, the plan is generally to continue dating.If you've been dating for more than 10 months and for some reason you still don't trust your man then there's definitely a problem.
So what makes it any more acceptable if you're comparing your BFF's boyfriend to yours?
Yeah sure he got her a $900 necklace but your man's efforts and love should be evaluated all on its own. If you can't take the time to listen to him then he shouldn't have to listen to what you have to say.
The least you can do is take the time to say thank you and repay the favour back to show that you do in fact appreciate his efforts.
It's one thing to forget important dates, but if you show no guilt or simply that you're not affected by it then there's a red flag.
There's a saying that the person you love's pain will half and their happiness will double when they are share both with you.