There had to be a simple secret that I was missing.
A long time ago, I got lucky and hooked up with a girl at a party.
I was young and didn’t know what I was doing, but because we had both been drinking, we somehow started kissing and that then lead to us getting into a relationship.
But her main point with this piece seems to be that “many previously self-defined ‘polyamorous’ folk like me, are adopting the term ‘relationship anarchist’ instead” because the media has tainted the term “polyamory” with objectification, slut-shaming, drama, and a salacious hyperfocus on sexuality that doesn’t jive with most peoples’ actual relationship experiences.
I seen a lot of people in polyamorous communities describing themselves as “relationship anarchists” lately because they don’t like what “polyamory” implies.
I’m guilty of lurking social media sites and I actually found out that somebody I was dating for a number of years um flew a young lady out, while he was out on tour because she was dumb enough to put it on her Twitter that that’s where she was.