On one side, you get a brilliant, stimulating mind, which really turns you on… Before I forget, there was one other thing I wanted you to consider: Very smart.
Sounds like the price you pay for dating a great conversationalist is pretty steep, huh?
If you’re a smart, accomplished woman who wants to attract smart men, but you think men don’t want to date you because of your smarts…think again.
While it’s true that some men prefer less “challenging” women, the guy you’re looking for – the interesting, mature accomplished man – has “smart” toward the top of his list of must-haves.
Tell him how cool it is that he has this connection, especially since it set you up to enjoy this lovely restaurant with him.
In other words, acknowledge you’re impressed and thank him for what he’s done for you.
Women like you really turn these guys on, but the key word here is It’s not unusual for men over 40 to say that smart, successful women tend to compete on dates, when all they want to do is relax and have a nice time.