He felt the same way and for a few weeks we dated, spending every possible moment together getting to know each other.
In the end, I don’t know what will happen with us and if we have a future because we live very far away from each other – but two interesting things happened while dating an Indian man for the second time since moving to Bangalore that have really made me stop and think … First, it was great to realise that not all Indian men are afraid to be with a white, divorced women for fear of what their parents will say.
In high school, there were other Black students, but none of them in my close-knit drama and speech class circles. It might start with an innocent "did you get a haircut" right after you wash your hair and there is shrinkage--but it does not end... From moisturizing, to protecting with a satin cap, there is always a new and interesting thing for your guy to discover.
Because of this, I have dated quite a few White guys, and while there are similarities when dating any man, there are still some small cultural quirks that never go unnoticed when you’re with a White dude. Trust me, while it gets easier to explain, it doesn't ever stop needing to be explained.2.
All things said and done, even though I have no idea what our future holds, I don’t regret a moment of it and I love the way I feel …