If you suspect that you have these traits, please leave this website and redirect your attention to Admittedly, I had a challenging time starting to write this article, because the bulk of people who contacted me about their BPD relationships had been men, but I kept getting letters from females who said, "what about us~ why aren't you writing about encounters with narcissistic or borderline disordered males, and they taught me about what to avoid.
When I began recalling and including those experiences in this piece, it flowed.
Their vulnerability comes across in a way that has you seeing them as open and genuine--but watch out!
Don't believe the hardship stories they feed you, while asking for a "temporary" loan or place to sleep. He had very disappointing and painful relationship experiences with Mother, and you're not gonna change this for him, no matter how you hard try to bridge that deficit.
BPD males tend to come on strong~ and if you're hard to get, they come on stronger..
Seducing women feeds his narcissism, and fills his core emptiness~ it's his addiction.
He spoke rather critically about his ex wives, yet couldn't figure out why they were all so insecure!