Leaving us to question, “How hard is it to love her without hating us?” This annoyingly ignorant couple serves as the public face for what has become a regular occurrence: Black men demeaning Black women.I was on a late-night social media prowl when I should have been working so I blame myself.
To be a conscious, black gay man trying to date in the LGBT community is to be a masochist.
We expect the experience will be stressful and tedious, but we participate anyway, hoping the next time will be different. From objectification to blatant racism, the types of messages gay black men receive on dating apps run the gamut—and it’s getting worse.
According to this woman, Black men prefer White women because: ● Black men can pull hair during sex without the tracks slipping ● They ride for their men and Black women leave them when they are broke ● We carry ourselves in a way that turns the Black man off ● We have 5 or 6 kids by multiple Baby daddies ● We can’t pay our bills because we spend all of our money on weave ● We don’t have father figures ● All of the other races are taking over You get the picture.
As livid as I was, my anger subdued when I realized that my frustrations were misplaced. She was spoon-fed a scoop of #alternativefacts by a self-hating Black man.
A link to the You Tube version of this video has been attached for your viewing pleasure, but if you are unsure that you will be able to exercise restraint and not snap completely off, let me give you a quick synopsis and spare you from wasting 10 minutes of your life.